Sandy Vaughn remembers standing in the corner of the cafeteria in Memorial Hospital of Carbondale shortly after learning her 20-year-old daughter, Suzanna, had been diagnosed with cancer.

“I just stood there and cried,” she said. “I had never felt so alone in my life, I felt like everybody had left me – even God.”

Suzanna Vaughn had been suffering from stomach discomfort and pain in her shoulders. Doctors first thought she was having gallbladder problems, but tests revealed she was suffering from Malignant Thymoma, or cancer of the thymus.

A year after undergoing surgery, chemotherapy and radiation treatments at Carbondale, the Herrin woman is fortunate to be cancer free.

It has been a long journey and both the mother and daughter agree a big part of the healing process was attending Cancer Support Group meetings at Herrin Hospital.

The meetings, conducted by hospital chaplain Fred Edwards and Social Worker Colleen Schloemann are held the third Wednesday of each month at the hospital.

Sandy said the support group allowed them to share their experience with others who were dealing with the disease.

“They have helped a lot, especial Brother Fred,” said Sandy. “He’s wonderful.”

Sandy said being able to talk definitely helped both of them. “We’ve made a lot of friends and met some very nice people.”

Suzanna, who is somewhat bashful, said the support group even helped her overcome her shyness.

“At first I didn’t know anybody; but, I learned to be sociable. It made me feel better to talk about my cancer.”

Suzanna and her mother recently donned red Santa Claus hats and attended the group’s annual Christmas party.

Attendees gave updates on their progress, remembered friends who are deceased and those unable to attend. They then enjoyed a Christmas dinner and gift exchange.

They recommend the group for those diagnosed with cancer – and for their family and friends.

“I would tell them they need to go because it will make them feel better,” said Sandy. “It will make them know they’re not alone.”

The Cancer Support Group was started by Sister Mildred Gross over 11 years ago to create an atmosphere of understanding and support.

Attendees share their stories with people who have similar experiences and often gain from their knowledge. They are also informed on medical, spiritual and social issues that relate to their disease.

Anyone needing information about this free program should call Schloemann at 618-942-2171, extension 35357 or Edwards at 618-942-2171, extension 35644.